Charitising.

I’ve been pondering a lot on ethics recently. Ethics of and in blogging, company ethics, charitable endeavours. And suddnely my inbox is now overflowing with a new type of blog beg – the charitising plea.

This is the missive, usually from an external (and presumably junior) PR hired by a company, that starts with a fervent claim to have read and enjoyed my blog, but despite this has singularly failed to identify my name (I don’t usually answer to Making it Up, although at a pinch liveotherwise would do). It then goes on, wading heavily through grammatical errors, and stray and/or missing apostrophes, to tell me what wonders the company they’d like to tell me about is performing in terms of charitable good works, and how they’d just like me to lend my voice to their campaign, which doesn’t in the slightest advertise their company at all, no no really it doesn’t, nor is it trying to climb on the latest bandwagon of hiding behind good deeds. It’s all about the charity after all, isn’t it guv?

I’m not impressed. I’m not impressed by the blatant begging and appeals to my better nature – my better nature has been expressing itself very nicely thank you without any need to advertise thinly disguised voting competitions that will only cause more heartache to those that get involved. Or competitions that will result in intellectual property (slogans, logos, whatever) that the company will use, having got for a song along the way. And so I’m not going to play. I will continue to consider genuine charity campaigns (although the gradually blurring line between business and charity and politics bothers me too – is it really still a charity if it’s funded by taxpayers’ pounds that are then used to lobby the government in an incestuous circle?) but I will choose what I support and how I support it. I’m even beginning to think better of my own fundraising efforts – it just feels wrong to continually attempt to extort money from my friends no matter how good the cause, so I may have to think of another way to raise the funds for the library I’d love to build. (No, I’m not going to give up on the reading/ reviewing 100 books thing. I started, so I’ll finish 😉 )

But one thing is for sure. I’ll be thinking harder on what I can do to be the change as that incredibly catchy quote goes. I’m fairly sure it won’t involve any more charitising.


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3 responses to “Charitising.”

  1. divasupermum antoinette avatar
    divasupermum antoinette

    interesting,its made me have a good think about things

  2. I think that all any of us can do is be comfortable with our own decisions and actions. I’d hate to think that anything I’ve done charity wise through my blog would be seen as ‘begging’ – as it takes a lot of work behind the scenes to get things off the ground and the hope is people can see it may be a worthwhile venture to take part and it has been my choice to attempt to do that 🙂
    I’ve tried small scale fundraising efforts through my famiy activities blog for local charities and have always endeavoured to make sure there is “something in it” for the person taking part – so I arranged review tickets for pantomimes and family attractions for bloggers and their families and in return I asked for a purely voluntary donation, perhaps for the cost of one ticket if they had had four or six or something.
    At the moment I’m asking for a donation of £2 or above to take part in a sunflower growing challenge – I’ve set a very modest target of £150 for the online part of this and am very. very conscious that none of us have oodles of cash to spare. I was very interested in your feedback about doing this through JustGiving and how much they charge charities and that a Virgin site may be better – a friend asked for donations through the Virgin one when she did a run for Mind in memory of her mum and I couldn’t get it to work. The charity benefiting has a JG account set up and they have found it works well so I was guided by them. In our one at the moment, the local charity I am raising money for gets 83p for every £1 donated. The rest goes on running costs for the hospice. I’m told this is a good rate for charities of a similar size. The ‘payback’ for bloggers taking part in this initiative is a hopefully fun activity with their kids, an e-book with tips and fun ideas connected to sunflowers and prizes including family days out. Offline it’s hoped community groups for children, schools and so on can take part. I am up front in saying that the reason I am helping with this is that I work for the charity and am paid to do so, I think you have to be really honest. People will question your motives, methods and results – and I have to accept that has to be welcomed, but in personal experience, it can go a bit far and sting a little – being accused of fraud on twitter was a particular highlight. Talking of twitter I have just seen that celebrities are asking people to bid on ebay to get them to follow back to raise money for Comic Relief _ I don’t know why but that shocks me, I suppose I find it pretty arrogant and I know some people will find it hard to stomach that people who may earn thousands of pounds a day are asking people to bid their hard-earned cash for um, a a follow on Twitter! Some people hate the thought of sponsoring people who are going somewhere exotic or challenging and the feeling is that why should they pay for someone else’s holiday – there is a lot of negativity around charity fundraising and debates about it – but charities face an on-going battle as official/government grants are harder to come by to help fund their work. Anyway I am sure I have rabbited on enough but as I said what seems like ages ago in this comment, all any of us can do is what’s right for us.

  3. Sorry I meant above that 83p in the pound goes on patient care.

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