the answer is no

stirring a sprinkle of flour into the cheese sauce won’t make it thicker. Unless lumps qualify as thick. But in my defense, m’lud, it is very difficult to make a good roux sauce when you have either a screaming baby in a chair by your foot, or you pick her up and sit her on your hip. Unless you are way harder hearted than me – my brain drips out my ears when she screams like that. All she wanted was picking up. So I did, and the sauce suffered for it.

I don’t know why it’s every evening. She’d been fed before I headed for the kitchen, and had fallen asleep, so I tried to sneak out. Like that was ever going to work.

Hm. Anyway, cauliflower cheese, lumps and all, now in oven with (soon to be) baked potatoes. Wed is my difficult evening for cooking as Big goes to Brownies and Tim pops out for a constitutional (drink) with his brother. And we’ve been out all day – today was music in the morning, and village hall home ed group (Easter activities) in the afternoon. A lovely day, but a long day out, and then Big has Brownies as well in the evening.

You know, I can’t remember when I last blogged. And it’s not as if microblogging would work either – I haven’t hardly tweeted or facebooked for days. I don’t know where the hours are disappearing to. We have been more social, with time spent with C, D and Z (*waves* as C has now found the blog :grin:) and of course Tuesday evening disappears at the swimming pool. Did I mention that Friday is going to go that way as well? Big tried out for swimming club and has gone straight into improvers 4, one step down from the squad!

[This post interrupted by feeding baby, feeding us, feeding baby, changing baby, feeding baby and is now to be (quickly) finished as baby is sleeping on my other arm so I should be in bed!]

Aargh. Earlier this evening a friend contacted me, concerned that a login of mine had been hacked following receipt of an odd comment on her blog. I recognised the text – something I’d mailed to the kids a week or so back. I remembered her post, and the comment I’d intended to leave on it. How it was replaced by the other text I don’t know – some brain hiccough between intention and keyboard. Symptomatic of my sleep deprived state of permanent confusion and insufficient two hand time. Does at least explain why she never got back to me though 😉

I have so much to blog and so little time and energy to be coherent doing it. There’s updates on soa’s development (she’s found her feet – they’re very interesting apparently, started rolling further from starting positions, and is investigating her hands and what she can do with them), a little conversation on email strewing (remind me when I’ve time (say, oh I don’t know, 5 years time?)), further details on Big’s swimming achievements and some positive developments in maths confidence. I wanted to review The Thrift Book: Live Well and Spend Less, and talk about the books optimistically piled next to my chair. I want to enter blog carnivals and follow writing prompts, post heartwarming pictures of my offspring and share crochet patterns (if I can ever deconstruct the doll’s dress in question to write it out.) I’ve got a post bubbling away on my continuing anguish and uncertainty on how much, if any, education I should be imposing on or requiring from, my offspring and right now what is bugging me most is that I’ve just blogged my way through nearly an hour of valuable sleep time. Sigh. Must get my priorities straight.

Night all.

(Oh, if there’s anything in this list that you’d particularly like me to blog next, do feel free to comment. And yes, that is a pathetic attempt at eliciting some comment love interaction 😉 )


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21 responses to “the answer is no”

  1. hello!! i am being a poor blogger, and consequently a poor reader, but i am hear and do read and thinking of going to the stow place at the weekend for science week
    .-= HelenHaricot´s last blog ..By: HelenJ =-.

    1. @HelenHaricot do you know if they’ve got re-enactors this weekend? We went very recently but might still be interested in a return trip if they do. Thank you for dropping by.

  2. I read your blog consistently (in my reader), so sorry I don’t comment more 😀 ~ photos of offspring is always a draw to me (I am def’ a more pictures, less words person me!)
    .-= Caroline´s last blog ..Tot-School & HE in general. =-.

    1. @Caroline I just find it takes me nearly as long to process pictures as it does words…but perhaps I should process a batch and do a photo update post.

  3. I manage twitter and facebook, but only because a) it takes ten seconds, b) I can do it from my phone, and c) twitter feeds facebook. But actual, real, proper blogging…yeah. I know. Time, energy, headspace – all lacking. I’m about to download photos from my camera in an attempt to blog last weekend before the next one hits us. As for commentluv, I don’t even know what it is – should I put it on my blog?

    1. @Deb I meant comment love like you’ve all given me (and thank you). Commentluv is a plugin that pulls in a link to the commenter’s last post, which is rather nice 🙂

  4. do you have a slow cooker Jax? Might help on busy days. Have managed to get all mine to like a bean casserole type thing, kids have with bread and James with a baked potato.
    Haven’t even blogged this year, am very bad blogger!!!

    1. @Kirsty I don’t and I’m not sure what I’d be able to cook in one that Small would eat, given his dislike of mixed foods iyswim. I do keep wondering about one though. And get blogging – am sure C would like a catch up too 😉

  5. I think it’s a mum thing…. I seem to have lots of gaps in my day but I manage to fill them up with washing, cleaning, tidying (or rather keeping the bombsite at bay!)etc etc. I do get onto FB but only for a 10 second status update generally but blogging? Well, I’ve started a blog with good intentions about 5 times then forgotten all about it, added a bit 5 months down the line and then forgotten about it again. I’m hopeless.
    Love reading yours Jax, I’m fascinated and hugely impressed at quite how much you fit into your life!!
    xx

    1. @Cal Only fit in what impresses you at the expense of the housework! Glad you are enjoying it.

  6. Just wanted to leave a comment and say I hope you get some sleep! 🙂
    .-= sunnymama´s last blog ..Reaching =-.

    1. @SunnyMama Thank you. I got one decent stretch, but she didn’t want a lie in this morning, shame!

  7. Nurdley foop foop 🙂
    .-= Jonathan´s last blog ..Baking, painting, finding, riding… =-.

    1. @Jonathan bibble, obble, yop. 😀

  8. Reminds me of Beth’s babyhood reading this, and how I enjoyed every little stage, knowing she would be my last and knowing from past experience how quickly it passes. I kept memory books for my babies, If we had a computer then we certainly didn’t have the internet, but when I look back at them they are mostly gaps. Babies are time consuming and I remember one time in my life when I made my own sleep the ultimate priority, it was a matter of survival.
    Pictures always do it for me too : )
    .-= Maire´s last blog ..The DCSF are going to Investigate us =-.

    1. @Maire Yes, with Big I thought I would remember everything, with Small I hoped I would blog, with soa I know neither will apply, so I’m trying to take pictures. Which I do need to make more effort to share.

  9. Lots of waves back at you!!!!

    1. @Darla and in person too!

  10. Haven’t blogged since October or November, lol, know right where you are! Fi’s 2.5 now and fairly independent, but still no time for the mama! I FB a bit, but blog and Twitter have been sadly neglected. Rather the blog than the baby, lol. ;P

    1. @Gem yes, the blog won’t really pine away I suppose. Good to hear from you 🙂

  11. aargh, did comments through admin interface where it nests them all beautifully, but not here it would appear, sorry.

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