Childhood memories

All around me at the moment it seems, children are hurtling towards major memories. First day at nursery, school or senior school – parents buying uniforms, practising the morning routine, getting nametapes ready and so on.

I’m not sure that my kids remember their first day at Montessori. It wasn’t like your average school. No uniform for starters. Breakfast provided, home cooked lunch, only up to 10 children in the elementary classroom (though thinking about it, Big started in the children’s house.) I didn’t take pictures – I don’t know why. I suppose in a way it was a milestone I didn’t want to mark – school had never been a part of my aims for my children.

I don’t know what their stand out memories from childhood will be. I don’t know if they will remember summer holidays camping with friends, or far too much time spent in the house with a tired grumpy mummy.

It’s odd the things that stand out from my own childhood. I remember the summer of ’76 – and my sister being amazingly sick with sunstroke. I remember the winter that came after it and snowdrifts that I could barely walk through, and chimney fires at the bottom of the street.

I remember the fashion for leather sofas that my parents and their friends had. They were called chesterfields, and the arms and the back were the same height. Which meant that you could turn them over and make them into dens, which probably wasn’t what our parents had intended, but I can remember doing that and playing at Tardis’s with a doctor who mad friend. I got to be K9 😉

Odd the things that stick isn’t it? Do you ever wonder what your children’s stand out childhood memories will be?


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4 responses to “Childhood memories”

  1. the memories that Aprilia talks most about are camps, visits to HE families where she feels “at home” and summer drama school. I did briefly wonder about the lack of big milestones etc but then, I can’t remember my first day at school, my first day of high school is only remembered as feeling bewildered and wearing scratchy wool socks and my clearest happy childhood memories are of holidays so maybe these big milestones aren’t all that important after all? I do wonder sometimes if they are “bigged up” to make them feel more special when really they aren’t all that remarkable?

  2. I distincly remember my first day at secondry school started with English followed by double Biology. I remember because I was dying to go to the loo but was too scared to ask. So I sat there desperately holding it in for 2 hours!

  3. I have some fantastic childhood memories. Some that are just pleasant memories of eating lunch while listening to the Archers. Others of trips to museums. And still others of some of our trips abroad – hitching to Antwerp for an Esperanto congress, going to a week-long Esperanto gathering in a castle in France and being fed plates of grated carrot and green beans, because they didn’t quite understand the concept of vegetarianism. And memories of sleepovers with my best friend and Sunday walks along the canal to the play park and then to the country pub for ploughman’s and coke.
    I also remember my first day at school – being told off for saying A, B and C (etc.) instead of Ah, Buh and Cuh. It went downhill from there until I left two years later.
    I think you build your own memories, whatever you do, and all we can ever do is hope that our children have some happy ones to balance out the others.

  4. My husband has an amazing memory from his very earliest days. Me – not a good memory to remember with. My son is 35 & occasionally he will say something about the past that I’m surprised he remembered!

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