You have to be careful when talking to literal minded youngsters. Small ended up sobbing on my lap at lunchtime today as he hadn’t had any breakfast. It had not been Tim’s intention to prevent the eating of breakfast when he said Small needed to tidy his bedroom first thing in the morning, as breakfast always happens first, before what’s going to happen first thing, but we forget that if we don’t give the exceptions, he doesn’t take them. You’d think after the time he wet his bed because I told him he wasn’t allowed to keep getting up at night we’d remember 🙁

Anyway, the bedroom did get tidied, and it wasn’t that he was hungry, it was merely that he was very upset at lunch happening without breakfast having happened first as order is very important too. Plus “why don’t ppl mean what they say?” Sigh. I confess to having dropped a couple of tears on his head as he cried on my lap.

And then we had lunch. Which solved pretty much all problems. Apart from the not having watched Prisoner of Azkaban yet, which was very upsetting all round 😉 It was even more upsetting when I had to tell them that I had a doctor’s appt and they couldn’t watch it until I got back 🙂

Fortunately I was first in the appt list this afternoon, so we didn’t get a repeat of the over hour waiting fiasco. And I talked to her about the other doctor I saw, and how he didn’t seem very happy that I’d gone to see him, and apparently he’s pretty much like that. Lovely. The good news is that there’s no wear and tear on my hip, and therefore the diagnosis is sciatica. I’ve had no pain at all since the first day at Melrose, so if I’m happy to just sit on my backside crocheting all day I’ll be fine, and as I’m not, the suggestion is gentle exercise such as yoga or pilates with paracetamol to cover any pain and codeine to back it up if it doesn’t work.

Hm. Lovely. Ah well. And my choose and book follow up on the miscarriage is being transferred to a hospital nearer to soon to be house so as not to introduce a several month delay in the process.

Then I came home and we watched Azkaban. Even I’m slightly annoyed at how different it is to the book, but it didn’t seem to unduly distress the offspring. They were mildly surprised, and I had to explain some of the reasons why, but at least we didn’t have any more tears.

Tomorrow I’m thinking about a trip to old house and Big wants yet again to work out what she can make to sell to buy a DS. I feel I may not have thought this plan through sufficiently. And now I need sleep, which will take a little while, as I started processing one of the heaps in the bedroom and transferred it mainly to our bed. More sighs. Although I did find a pair of age 6 Levis in Small’s hand me down pile that now fit him. Wow, his first Levis. I’m so proud.

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6 responses to “Yet more Harry Potter”

  1. hugs for small – bless him.
    what about baby doll matching scarf and hat sets? is that hard or easy? prob is, her friends aren’t over endowed with money!!

  2. If you can, go see an osteopath, sciatica is the main nerve being trapped and it can be manipulated free. The yoga will help too and strengthen your core muscles which will help prevent it happening again.

  3. I know you don’t really believe me and i know you don’t really think Maddy’s difficulties matched up, but i promise that by the time he is 8 or so he’ll have got a lot of this under control. I have been through this and i really sympathise and i do think you’ve got your approach quite right. Admittedly by 8 he’ll have a different set of things to challenge him but the ones causing him grief now will be gone.
    I’ve got very good memories of every single deviation from the norm being a complete meltdown; Maddy reached her crisis point over it perhaps a little earlier than Small and by contrast she was helped by nursery and by us moving a lot but it was just the same. When Maddy was 3 she was almost entirely unreachable and learning by experience took an AWFULLY long time and an awful lot of experiences but she did get there. Small will too but i completely empathise with you shedding tears on his head because i know i have had endless sleepless nights worrying about how she’ll cope. And then, just when i’d worried myself to a pitch over it, she somehow DID cope.

  4. hugs for Small over missed breakfast! And I’d second the suggestion of osteopath, doesn’t always work but is def worth a good try rather than pill popping for foreseeable future. At least you know it isn’t anything degenerative so it’s one less thing to worry about.

  5. If you google for Sciatica exercises there are plenty online examples that should hopefully help. Second the osteopath too. We have the meal times order issue here, hence why we never have our main meal at lunchtime! Quite a few times DS3 has insisted on having his breakfast and then his lunch immediately afterwards. We had the wet bed thing with DS1 too when I confined him to his room for something and told him not to come out. Ah well, as Merry says, things will change, in some ways its harder but in some ways its easier, especially for them. *hugs* for you both.

  6. I had sciatica for over a year. Tried physio and chiroprator, couldnt find an osteopath near to us!!! but neither worked, just needed rest and time, which given the circumstances I didnt have much time for rest, but then it gradually got better and now I have nothing other than the odd twinge first thing in the morning, hope you are able to get some releif from it.
    Looking back, HRH used to have many, many crisis episodes and melt downs, which are now fewer and fewer. Its terrible for the little ones, but always amazes me how quickly they bounce back, and us adults are left milling things around in our heads for hours / days afterwards…***hugs***

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