Washing and sewing and stropping and stuff

Despite recent suggestions otherwise, the children are still addicted to screen time. I’m not quite sure what to do about it – I’d like to let them autonomously work through it, but behaviour deteriorates rapidly around here if they do nothing but stare at flickering images or play puter games, and I’m not sure I have the willpower to wait until they sort it out for themselves. Hm. Constructive criticism in the usual place please.

So Monday involved far too many screen time, at least for Small. Think I managed to get him to read half a chapter of his book, but that was about it. Big however, did some more sewing with me in the afternoon, we made two reversible wrap skirts, one that just about fits the enormous toddler doll, and one which fits her smaller baby doll, only a shame that he’s a boy really 😉 There was a delay in that it took me 1 1/2 hours to get the machine to pick up the bottom thread after I reloaded the bobbin – it appears that you have to push pretty hard to get the bobbin to stay in correctly in a Singer 1507, and it doesn’t say that in the manual.

Hohum.

After that, tea was running a bit late, and I was a bit devoid of inspiration. We’d got carrots, courgettes, onions and cabbage left from the veg box, so I did carrot sticks, then courgette and onion kebabs. Apparently they were horrendously horrid according to Big, who couldn’t cope with the courgette at all. Small didn’t try them.

I quite enjoyed them though. Oh well.

And so to bedtime. When I discovered that the washing that I’d carefully folded and piled in separate heaps on Small’s bed to make it easier for him to put away had been thrown on the floor. I was not best pleased. He is pushing his luck in this type of area atm, refusing to do the smallest chore and expecting to be waited on hand and foot. Any requests for him to assist results in overblown reactions and a distinct lack of cooperation. I had to walk away last night as I couldn’t deal with his attitude, so the first part of my evening was not nearly as pleasant as it could have been.

Once they were in bed, I recovered with an episode of CSI Miami and then had an early night, as it’s swimming Tuesday morning and we had a playdate on the beach planned for after.

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6 responses to “Washing and sewing and stropping and stuff”

  1. I’m not sure I’ve got anything very helpful to suggest, but here’s my 2p worth wrt screen time:
    In our family the kids are restricted to 30 mins each on the computer per day. They all have their own logins (except Anna, she’s still a bit young to care!) and once their time is up, they just can’t log in (‘computer says no!’) They must be aware that we have set this time limit, because it used to be an hour and we cut it back. They have never complained about it though. They sometimes get cross with the computer if it logs them out before they are ready, but haven’t made the leap to being cross with me!
    As for TV, we found our viewing habits as a family changed when we got a DVD recorder. Previously, we would plan our lives around programmes we wanted to see. Now, we auto-record anything that looks interesting, and watch it at our convenience. What this often means is that we sit down to watch something we’ve recorded, and decide 5 mins in that its not very interesting, delete it and watch something else. But if you look at the TV guide and circle a programme as ‘worth watching’ I think you’re unlikely to stand up and switch it off 5 mins later because you’ve made all that effort to see it.
    Sorry, not sure this is actually very helpful!
    I suspect given the situation you describe it might be necessary to go cold turkey for a while and then re-introduce screens with new ‘rules’ surrounding them. But it would be pretty hellish to do!!
    Hope you find a happy solution soon,
    Debbie

  2. My solution would be to not have a tv. I’m outnumbered on that idea though.

  3. cant really comment anything helpful regarding the screen time as we, use the PC and TV at various times throughout the day. The children have approx 30 mintues each on the PC and there are usually grumps and moans about changing over but they get over it, and we have TV first thing in the morning, in my room. Gives me an extra 1/2 hour in bed and gives me time to ‘wake’ up, even if it is to the tune of Luna Jim / Thomas the Tank….but thats something that started when Lynsey was ill and it was nice quiet time together, so I’ve kept that….then we usually have a DVD of sorts late afternoon, usually while I’m cooking dinner etc….see, no use to you at all…..sorry. We did use a kitchen timer for PC time at one point though when they didnt want to share, that went down well.
    .-= nigel´s last blog ..snails, trees and rugs =-.

  4. Can the TV mysteriously get broken for a week or two? Like disconnecting the ariel?
    But I think that is also dependent on how long the adults could live without it! Watch my blog for a post on that! 🙂
    I like the computer timer idea. But to do all this-they need a distraction. Can you plan on a daily walk/outing to get them out of the house so they can’t see it? Let’s face it–self regulation is hard enough for us, and we grown-ups know the positives of not doing certain things, yet we keep doing them! A little help/incentive programme might work!
    .-= Elizabeth´s last blog ..Art in the Rainforest =-.

  5. The TV did break during the hottest weather – our digital reception went to pieces 🙂 They didn’t really seem to mind much at that point, and all we missed was the news which we do watch daily. Other than that we can live without it quite easily.
    But since it mysteriously sorted itself out again, they are just glued to it and it’s winding me up as it goes along with a deterioration in their behaviour. At least yesterday they found some of the educational stuff I’d recorded for them – Look and Read was a big hit, as was Magic Grandad. I suspect the answer is going to be to ration them to a couple of programs of their choice each day, but allow educational programs on top. And then insist on some other activities – the activity box which was greeted with such enthusiasm just a couple of weeks ago has been roundly ignored ever since 🙁
    .-= Jax´s last blog ..Swimming, beach and quiet afternoon. =-.

  6. We don’t have the tv on between 9 and 5, unless I say so 😉 So like Nigel really – gives us all time to wake up and breakfast and faff about as needed, and then peace when I’m making dinner 🙂 Computers – well, we have one each, which reduces arguments, if not screen time, lol!
    .-= Alison´s last blog ..Camp ‘09! =-.

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