Today I got cross.

And for once it wasn’t with a politician, or one of my children.

Let me set the scene. It’s about 7 in the evening, glorious day, and I’m about to drag 4 children around lidl. I park the car, and as we start getting out, a football bounces past, knocking into the car door. It’s pursued by a medium sized boy on a scooter. Instead of picking it up, he kicks it around the carpark and scoots after it, narrowly missing Big as she lifts Smallest into a trolley while I’m by the car wrapping Tigerboy. Small shouts at the boy, who then disappears down the steps into the neighbouring park.

A few moments later and sure enough the football reappears over the wall and bounces past my car again.

I see red. Still fastening the wrap sound my waist I head over to the wall and proceed to give the bunch of teenagers at the other side a piece of my mind, asking them what they think they are doing and how they would feel if the ball had hit the toddler or baby that they couldn’t see.

The temptation to keep the ball that Big had retrieved was quite high, but instead I had her throw it back and we headed into the store to a virtual round of applause from others in the carpark.

So, did I overstep the boundaries? Would you have done the same? Or would you have just quietly disappeared the ball without confrontation?


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Comments

5 responses to “Today I got cross.”

  1. Haha good for you!
    I’d have punctured the ball and then given it back. Although I don’t drive so no worries about retaliatory punctured tyres!

  2. Well done for you… not sure if I would have been so brave

  3. In our road the local kids play football outside in the street and my car is constantly hit (or the door) although not involving hitting my kids I do go out and tell them to ‘watch it!’ as i would if they were my children. Cars are expensive!

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