To whom it may concern

I had occasion to visit your Brewsters pub at York Business park yesterday. I have two young children (4 and 16 months) and wanted them to enjoy playing in softplay while I ate with a friend before travelling home.

On arrival at the pub, my toddler was knocked over by another child. When I spoke to the child she ignored me. A woman came along and I said “if that’s your daughter, she’s just knocked over my little boy”. She said, aggressively, “Do you want to make an issue of it?” I said that I just thought it would be reasonable for the little girl to be more careful. She then realised that it wasn’t her little girl, and told me to get my facts straight, before going back to the area that she was sitting in. Another woman then came along, and told me that the first woman had said I’d had a go at her child, and what was going on. I explained that she had knocked over my son, and that I’d asked her to be more careful, and that I hadn’t had a go at her. She said that the little girl was only 4 and wouldn’t have meant it, and I said that if my four year old did similarly that I would expect her to apologise and that was usually what we did when we did something we didn’t mean.

I was left shaking by the aggressiveness of the two women, and kept my children out of the soft play while the other children were in there.

We then ate. I was distinctly unimpressed by the offerings for vegetarians on your menu – none of which are marked as such, so it’s left to the imagination. Broccoli and cheese pasta appeared to be it for a hot meal, and was over £6, which is just a little excessive to say the least, given that vegetables are rather cheaper than meat. The children’s meals, at £3.99 a go are exorbitant – three fish shapes, a spoonful of beans and a few chips. Either ice cream or bananas and custard for dessert, and a poor choice of drinks (although I do commend you for including water). Apparently young children can’t be vegetarian either, as there didn’t appear to be any vegetarian option unless you go up to the £4.99 menu. You don’t appear to have child size cutlery which I think is remiss.

After our meal (I had a deeply uninteresting cheese bagette – basically grated cheese on a bit of french style bread), we took the children into the softplay. Unbelievably, despite the fact that we’d already paid for the meal through the nose, we were then charged £2 for my daughter to use the softplay. (My son was free because he is under the height limit and therefore not allowed to go on most of the softplay).

Suffice it to say that after this experience, it will be a very long time before I set foot in a Brewers Fayre pub again.


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4 responses to “To whom it may concern”

  1. ah yes Brewers Fayre – grrr. We had a similar thing with the softplay. We were charged £2 for both (I think) but Alex had to be content with a ball pool and a bead frame as she was just under the height limit for the big area. I won’t be going back there soon either.

  2. Hmmm… i didn’t like the one i went into recently although the pboro one is nice.
    Not sure what they can do about the attitude of the two customers though?

  3. Yeah, not sure they can be held responsible for the poor behaviour of their customers. TBH Jax, your description of the place would be my expectation of a BF (I have never been to one). The sort of person who goes there is probably not *that* discerning or desperate and consequently crap food and crap service is tolerated so why would BF bother changing their style. I bet you get some vouchers for another meal with them.
    We went to TGIF last night, which is expensive, but the food is great as is the service. No softplay but not really needed for a birthday meal. The waiter made the kids balloon hats, balloon swords (not sure that was too sensible, thank god Josiah wasn’t there!) and the kids menus have a choice of not only main courses but potato and vegetables, you can have apple slices instead of beans, peas etc etc

  4. Well, given that they’ve got posters all over the softplay explaining what behaviour is acceptable from children, perhaps they need some aimed at adults? 😉
    I dunno what I expect them to do – not an awful lot to tell the truth. But without complaining they aren’t going to know how ****ing awful their pub is, and I thought that I could at least do that. The whole experience was horrid. The behaviour that was accepted by the adults from the children wasn’t surprising once I experienced the adults behaviour.
    We tried to find a swimming pool to go to, and couldn’t find any info on a suitable child friendly pool in York. We went to a pub with softplay so that the kids could run around and burn off steam before spending an hour and a half in the car – Ali doesn’t have a garden (although they’d have needed flippers to use one anyway!). Apparently York doesn’t have soft play places that aren’t attached to pubs – a business opportunity for someone there…

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