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The death of Dylan Seabridge – home education in the news.

a b c 1 2 3 chalkboardThe last couple of days home education has featured on several radio shows and BBC news because of a leaked report into the death of a child in Wales in 2011.

The case is tragic. Dylan Seabridge died of scurvy (although apparently his parents dispute that) without contact with medical services. There *was* a family referral to the local authority a year before his death, but it’s unclear what form that took. That’s pretty much all we know, because nearly 5 years on, the SCR (serious case review) hasn’t been released. We have politicians saying lessons must be learnt, but without the review no one can really be learning anything.

And with nothing else to blame, it’s home education in the firing line. As Dylan was home educated, that obviously means he was invisible. (Remember that local authority referral? Not invisible.) From Neil Carmichael (chair of the education select committee and MP for Stroud) proposing a register on Radio 4, to the BBC Any Questions show today asking ‘do we even need homeschooling?’ everyone is up in arms.

We should be registered. We should be monitored. Our children should be tested regularly, seen monthly, and get at least 4 good GCSEs. (Yes, I’ve seen someone saying exactly that.)

But, as one home educator asked Neil Carmichael – how will putting my child’s name on a list make them safer?

It won’t. It can’t. So either this registration proposal is just a waste of time, or it’s the thin end of a wedge we’ve seen before. Get ready for schemes of work, annual inspections for all home educators and school at home for one and all.

Where’s the harm in that, people ask, surely if you’ve nothing to hide you’ve nothing to fear?

Well, for one thing, the act of inspection could be harmful in itself. Parents know that children in schools are tested regularly. Does this raise the standard of education? Politicians would say it does. Either way there’s plenty of evidence it raises the stress level of school children. Why would I want to bring that into my home?

I don’t follow the National Curriculum (I’m not legally required to, any more than free schools, academies or independent schools are). We don’t have set lesson times or subjects. We are rarely to be found sitting round the kitchen table except for at family mealtimes. Despite this, I’m confident that I’m following the law as specified in section 7 of the education act 1996

The parent of every child of compulsory school age shall cause him to receive efficient full-time education suitable—

(a)to his age, ability and aptitude, and

(b)to any special educational needs he may have,

either by regular attendance at school or otherwise.

This house is bursting at the seams with educational stuff. We count birds, spot house numbers on nature walks, do montessori activities and paint. Oh, and we read, watch TV, play games, build duplo, draw, go skating, visit the zoo etc etc, so on and so forth.

The children also have a lot of time to follow their own special interests, which vary from child to child and time to time. This is how it should be.

How would I fit their learning into someone else’s boxes? I’m sure I could, but the time I would take doing that would be taken away from their days. The effort I would have to put in would be effort I couldn’t spend on them, and I might start worrying, and interfering, and trying to teach them, and the whole balance of their learning experiences would be disrupted. (Great post from Gill here that goes into this in more detail.)

Monitoring my children wouldn’t keep them safe, and it wouldn’t enhance their education. There’s nothing wrong with the safeguarding laws in this country as they stand – except that there are times when they aren’t applied.

Instead of spending money on consultations about pupil regulations and so on, how about spending money on that?


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Comments

11 responses to “The death of Dylan Seabridge – home education in the news.”

  1. I thought of you yesterday when I saw this comment on fb from Elaine Colliar (Mortgage Free in Three).
    Elaine Colliar
    Yesterday at 08:05 ·
    Hang on – a wee lad dies of scurvy … registered with a Doctor, Dentist and known to the council as being at risk……….
    but instead of reforming the council, dental or health authorities obvious failure to act … they are banging on AGAIN about reforming Home Schooling.
    Sheesh!!! They don’t get it do they? They just need a scapegoat!!

    1. Apparently he hadn’t seen a doctor or dentist since he was 13 months(?). But piecing together various articles it seems Ceridigion Social Services were alerted, they passed it on to Pembrokeshire SS and they in turn passed it on to Education. It’s not difficult to work out a few possible scenarios of how it all went tragically wrong.

    2. Spot on from Elaine.

  2. Elaine said: “Hang on – a wee lad dies of scurvy … registered with a Doctor, Dentist and known to the council as being at risk……….
    but instead of reforming the council, dental or health authorities obvious failure to act … they are banging on AGAIN about reforming Home Schooling.” If thats true, that he was registered with them and known to be at risk I agree with you – Home Ed the default scapegoat! I await to hear more, so that can truly know.
    I hate also how some news pages have shown photos of the parents, we do not know much about them so far… and yet we shall judge them.
    All very sad!
    Can I add that one of my Home educated daughters just got a degree, went straight to internship and now has her dream job!

  3. Ross Mountney avatar
    Ross Mountney

    Good post! What incenses me about this issue is that whenever a child who is known to the services is abused and neglected no one ever blames the schooling do they?! So why blame home education – it is a PARENTING issue!

    1. precisely that Ross.

    2. I totally agree with you on this one. Always seems to be the same ol same ol. The child could have died even if he was attending school, from what i can gather the school food is somewhat lacking in nutrition. Why should home educators get the blame all the time when it is the duty of the parents and social social services to ensure the child was safe and cared for.

  4. It’s worth noting that at the time the safeguarding services had just been judged ‘not fit for purpose’ in that area.
    Could that, just maybe, have played a part? Or is it just that we weirdos who don’t want to let our progeny be raised by the state that are the problem?
    The small mindedness of the media astounds me.

    1. Oh yeah. Forgot the link to the article about their SS. Sorry!
      http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-wales-14491244

  5. I still want to reinstate how -hilarious- I find it that “Do we really need Home Education at all?” was accompanied by the caption ‘Intelligent Speech’. Either the broadcasters bribed the radio company to help keep up the thin illusion that what they’re saying makes any sense, or our radio has gained sentience and is already a lot better at sarcasm than I am.

    1. I think you probably mean restate 😉

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