preparing for change again.

In a couple of weeks time, we shall become an official two income household again.  Tim’s coming to work the same place I do – should be interesting.  It’s been a whirlwind couple of weeks getting it set up – today we’ve been out looking at cars so that he can put in an order for the company to get him one.

And how will that work with flexi-schooling?  Ah, well, there is a plan.  It’s a rough and ready one at the moment, but basically as the support dept I work in is also moving to a 24/5 three shift operation at the same time, I will be slipping a couple of my days so that I can be with children during the day and working during the evening.  Does rather put the pressure on for the getting moved bit, but that’s no bad thing.  And of course, during the teething period we will be abandoning children to relatives or friends whenever necessary 😉

Tomorrow we’re in Brighouse again for another party – depending on how I feel (I’ve an absolutely hacking cough and sore throat, grossly unfair in this sunshine!) we may go up a bit earlier and go to look at the outside of various houses.  No point in setting up viewings until we’ve seen the locations, as neither of us wants to be stuck in the perfect house at the wrong end of a reasonable road or anything like that.

So there you go.  There’s been loads springing to mind to blog recently, but somehow I thought I ought to get the change of lifestyle blog out of the way first. Smiley 

So like I said, today we’ve been out looking at cars.  Small thought that was great fun, Big was moderately amused, I think I got bored first.  That was after we popped for shoe shopping – bad mother that I am in part, Small has been wearing the same shoes for absolutely ages as there never seemed to be any pressure on his feet.  Today though, he was big enough to be measured on the big machine in the brand new Clarks shop near us, and we discovered he’d gone up a whole size! Smiley So he has new doodle sandals, and despite Big not having changed size at all, we’ve bought her some sandals to replace her boots, and some different ones to replace her indoor shoes which she insists don’t fit at all any more.  And after the shoe shopping we went up to see my parents – my stepfather has just been in for investigatory surgery following some sort of doubt at a routine check up, and he’s feeling kind of sorry for himself.  My mother was sun worshipping – I can’t believe how hot it was today!  Is it really only April?

Other things I could rant about include the insurance company who despite confirming in writing that my policy had lapsed still took the money from my debit card and are now refusing to refund it unless I return the insurance certificate that I’m not even convinced I ever received.  This along with a succession of inaccurate letters and complete failure to send me the copy of their complaints procedure that I requested.  Tim is suggesting I involve trading standards, I’m definitely going to speak to my bank (as I’d spoken to them prior to this occurring, and said I didn’t want them to pay the insurance company, but they couldn’t stop it at the point it was only an authorisation, and given I thought I’d cancelled it, I didn’t check til the other night to find out why I was suddenly overdrawn), and I shall be firing irate letters at the insurance ombudsman.  In case you are wondering, I definitely do not recommend AQuote. 

I’ve been reading lots of blogs about education/ teaching/ inspections/ standards and stuff, and I will try to get around to jotting some thoughts down, but right now I’m going to go shut the back door (it’s finally getting cold in here) then find some more painkillers for my throat, and then go kiss the kids good night.  Priorities you know.

Oh, and I need to blog about Big’s reading, remind me!


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30 responses to “preparing for change again.”

  1. That all sounds exciting. I work in the evenings two or three days a week and it works well for us.

  2. I can’t believe you’ve not put Tim off working at your place, after all you’ve said about it over the past however long it is! Or is he coming in to sort it all out?!

  3. gosh, sounds all very exciting! Hope you find the perfect house really fast!

  4. I am going to be Ron Manager. My first job is to sort out the moaning minions. 🙂

  5. feeling slightly sorry for minions [but not very!]
    good luck with quick move and evenings will be better

  6. Wow, sounds stressful but positive! Hope it all works out well.

  7. What sort of car are you ordering then? Important questions first of course! 😉
    All sounds very exciting, really hope you can make the geographical move quickly as well.

  8. Volkswagen Passat Saloon 2.0 TDI 170 SEL…….. I think.
    It’s West Yorkshire. 🙁
    We are in Derbyshire at the moment, which is bad enough.

  9. Testing, testing…

  10. I think car hunting is one of the most mind-numbing activies known to man. Fortunately ours is now on a 4 year instead of 3 year cycle so I got an extra 12 months before we had to a) go through car list, b) grumble becuase the makes he thinks he wants aren’t on the list c) go round all the dealerships of the makes we can have d) have the same tedious converstaion with boorish (no offence Sarah!) salesmen, who, in the case of Jaguar make outright lies saying that you can’t get on any car sat nav with traffic information until we pointed out our 4 year old Saab does until e) you basically choose the same model you have now except the Sportswagon not saloon version. And calling it a “Sportswagon” doesn’t change the fact that it’s actually an estate car. (Waah. We managed with our Alfa GTV until Clo was 2 years old. I can’t believe I’m going to be driving an estate!)

  11. Oooooh! Interesting :)Lots of luck.

  12. That all sounds great! 😀 May the right house and car slide smoothly into your path. And stop before they bump into you 😉
    Happy new job, Tim! Congrats!

  13. What is it that the place you work does? Not sure I have ever worked out what it is your(now dual) efforts are contributing to.

  14. It’s a software house, with one very specialised business product.

  15. As far as the car is concerned, I simply chose the seat I liked best. Since modern motoring mainly means sitting waiting for the traffic to move, and Ferraris and Ladas are equally fast in traffic jams, the important thing is a nice seat, air con and a decent cd/radio. It doesn’t bother me that it is a slow, rattley, smokey, old diesel, it will do lots of miles to the gallon and the cooled glove box to keep the beer in matters far more. 🙂
    PS. Jax wouldn’t let me have a Mazda RX8. 🙁
    It had four doors, and a boot. Perfect family car.

  16. Cooled glove box doesn’t keep cooling when the engine’s off. The chocolate melts when the car’s been left in the sun for a while so you have to eat it on arrival.
    We’re going deisel now as more cost effective both on mpg and tax.
    And full leather instead of half leather as kids do leave drinks upside down in the car – and even if it is just water, it still leaves a water stain on the fabric which makes it look as though we transport incontinent people all the time.
    Good lumbar support on the seat.
    Parking sensors.
    Sat nav with traffic avoidance has proved its worth in the past so was an essential.

  17. We’re getting one of them Tim.
    😆
    Michelle, are you hoping to cure Jax’s headache with the mind-numbing descriptions of car-hunting? 😉

  18. “The chocolate melts when the car’s been left in the sun for a while so you have to eat it on arrival.”
    And that is a bad thing? 🙂
    Don’t need sat nav. I have a map. 😐

  19. pmsl, I will make sure Steve sees this list of essential car requirements before he re-stocks next 😉

  20. AN RX8 has two doors. And it’s been top of my list for a while.

  21. Count on your fingers
    Two on each side
    One opens forwards and the other opens backwards.

  22. I never knew that. It’s put me off it.

  23. Can you actually open the back doors without opening the front? Surely it has two sets of doors, rather than four doors if that’s the case (which wikipedia tells me it is). So maybe one should go for a independent suicide doors (nice name) on a Rolls Royce Phantom?
    A quick google located the company you both now work for but not a lot wiser as to what it is they actually provide to so many people.

  24. Alison – you’re right.
    Sorry Jax.
    Glad I didn’t mention the rain sensing wipers. ;-0

  25. I actually think the rain sensing wipers sound like a good move – no apology required 🙂
    Chris, I’d rather not go into great detail on here, somehow it doesn’t seem appropriate.

  26. I would rather have an MX5 than an RX8, personally. Although both are completely impractical! There must be different models of RX8 that have those doors as I’m sure the one we had on the forecourt not long ago only had 2 doors, and it wasn’t that old iirc, but then I don’t actually tend to pay that much notice to these things …

  27. So what do the company need an highly experienced ranter for? Is Tim establishing a phone support revenge and rebuttal team 😀

  28. … and what’s the problem with an RX8 Jax?

  29. Jonathan, they wish to acquire a first strike capability. 🙂

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