Not a retrospective.

New Year’s Eve is an odd day for my family. It should be my youngest sister’s birthday, it is her daughter’s. So we gather together to have a party for a nine year old, those of us from further away swap Christmas presents, and we don’t really mention those missing.

It is a day for remembering, nevertheless, not that there is ever a day for me that isn’t. You can’t disentangle someone from your life that was part of it from so early on, and for so long. And why would you want to? Even though it’s a sad thing, it is how it is. And watching her daughter grow is a peculiar bittersweet happiness.

Happy New Year.


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Comments

8 responses to “Not a retrospective.”

  1. What can I say except ‘hugs’. And have a wonderful 2012 – it’ll certainly be an exciting one. xxx

    1. Change is as good as a rest, I hope! Happy new year to you too.

  2. A striking likeness there – the chin, hair, even shape of nose… must be all the more bitter-sweet.

  3. Ohh Jax, I recall having read about your sister before. Like you say so bittersweet to celebrate her daughters birthday. She would be so proud of you all joining together.
    Happy New Year. Mich x

  4. Oh Jax, I’m so sorry my love I had no idea. I’m glad your niece has you in her life though xx

    1. Thanks Vonnie. It’s four and a half years ago now, but it still hurts.

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