Honesty and hard lessons.

Small put a huge amount of work into his Team Skylanders entry last week. He designed the new character requested in pencil drawings, and then set to modelling it and animated using Zu3D software (review forthcoming). Somehow he misread the entry date as being last Friday so the day was taken up with entering, and a last minute panic from me when I realised that the entry was supposed to be a tweeted photo and somehow he hadn’t taken a picture – so I lifted a still from the animation via YouTube.

Somehow, in the middle of all of that I completely failed to notice that you also had to leave a comment. So I didn’t. Which pretty much invalidated his entry and all the hours of work he’d put into it.

Today the winners were announced. Unsurprisingly, he didn’t win. I did shed a tear. Look, I’m shattered. The baby was up at 2.30 throwing up through coughing, and then was awake until around 4. Exhaustion does funny things to you.

I went to tell Small the bad news. He took it fairly well, the not winning, until I told him the rest of it, about not leaving the comment. Then he cried too. But I can pretty much guarantee he’ll read terms and conditions very carefully in the future and we won’t have that to go through that again.

So, was my honesty worth it? We’re both sad and cross, and he’s sad and cross with me. But I’d given him the details and left him to it, thinking that he was old enough to manage that. Really, with hindsight, given that he missed the photo thing and got the date wrong you’d think I’d have triple checked at that point, but somehow I didn’t.

And now the cat’s been sick on my armchair. I’m having a great day. How about you?


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Comments

9 responses to “Honesty and hard lessons.”

  1. Oh no 🙁 we’ve all been there I must confess! Hope your day improves x

  2. Oh dear Small, we REALLY loved your entry but we have to be fair to everyone who takes part, and if someone had won who hadn’t followed the rules, it would seem really unfair to those who followed the rules and didn’t win.
    But we DO want to send you a runners-up prize, so do get in touch and let us know where we can send it, because your entry definitely deserves a prize. Everyone at Skylanders thought the animation was brilliant and I even showed it to my Mum, who also thought it was really clever for a 9 year old. Well done for producing such a wonderful Skylander character.

    1. Thanks Sally, mail on the way.

  3. oh sweetie (((HUGS))) always better to be brave and go for full disclosure imo, otherwise it just sits on you and effects your relationship with them, from your side. Plus, as you’ve said, neither of you will make that mistake again!
    Sally from Skylanders – you’ve just won my ‘Awesome Person of the Year’ award 😀

    1. Thanks. I asked him whether he’d have preferred me not to tell him, he’s not sure right now.

  4. Oh bless him! Mistakes happen, you are only human so don’t be too hard on yourself. Fab that he will get a runners up prize.
    You’ll have to come to Norwich and play with us x

    1. Thanks Clare would be great to get together

  5. Oh hun, don’t be so hard on yourself!
    I entered a Britmums comp recently and had lots of people tell me my post was lovely. I had a 1 in 2 chance of winning… but didn’t win! I have just resigned myself to the fact I never win anything! Some people seem to win loads of competitions effortlessly and others (like moi) try hard but never win!
    The most important thing is that you and Small had fun! 🙂 xx

    1. Not according to small it isn’t, sadly. He’s blogged further. Very sad. And very Cross.

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