Help! My child is addicted to minecraft, what do I do?

First of all, don’t panic.

There’s a full schedule of support groups, a network for getting them clean…

actually, there isn’t. You’re on your own, I just thought that might make you feel better. But if you’re a parent with a child who can talk and think of nothing but minecraft it might well help to know there are a lot of us out here.

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Minecraft is, from the outside, a peculiar game. A step back from awesome graphics, it’s a game composed of blocks, looking like nothing more than a world constructed by living lego. And it’s incredibly addictive. The problems come though, when they start wanting to mod the world.

Mods, in minecraft terminology are addons. To load them on you’re likely to need a modloader – my own personal minecraft addict tells me that forge mod loader is a good starting place. He has a lot of mods, and has been on a steep learning curve – there were tears the first time minecraft updated and half (at least) of his mods wouldn’t work again. Living in a house where both parents are IT professionals he didn’t get an awful lot of sympathy I’m afraid, and anyone who has ever upgraded wordpress and suffered with an incompatible plugin will have experienced his pain.

However, before he’d experienced minecraft, we’d despaired of ever getting him to learn anything about the computer that he lives on daily. Now he knows how to explore, find folders, copy them, and disentangle his installation if it all goes horribly wrong. Minecraft *is* educational, and on those grounds I highly recommend it.

So, once your child gets beyond basic minecraft and starts wanting to add mods, there are some things you’re going to need to know.

Small strongly recommends replicating your .minecraft folder (it’ll be in your appdata folder he says) as many mods completely overhaul your minecraft world, so you can save a copy and use a separate profile to be able to access your previous worlds once a new mod is in. Pixelmod (a pokemon mod) will do this – you have been warned.

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What else has he learned? Well, for our recent homeed day out, he printed out a load of nets of a variety of minecraft characters and stuff, and led an activity that saw lots of children sitting around, cutting things out and sticking them together. He did this completely independently of me, which I think points to a whole load of useful skills being acquired.

I don’t like all of the world around minecraft. I do not understand the fascination of watching other people play on endless youtube videos (and why the people narrating them don’t have full grasp of the English language and thus restrict themselves to language usually banned in this house is completely mystifying. Small has been warned the first time he comes out with anything from any of them is the last time he watches any of the videos. (No, it’s not horrendous language, but worse than we use. Certainly no worse than he hears at his swimming lessons or cub sessions though.))

But given that I can see the educational opportunities all around, and knowing that this learning is going on autonomously, I’m going to say to you, don’t worry too much. It’ll all come right in the end. We need children with tech skills for the future, and minecraft could well be one way they get them. So, celebrate your little minecraft addict. They could be the IT saviours of the world.


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9 responses to “Help! My child is addicted to minecraft, what do I do?”

  1. Am with you on the bad language in the YouTube vids. Drives me potty and mine are banned from listening to it without headphones because *I* don’t want to listen to people constantly swearing. Then again I do threaten to re-ban Youtube on a regular basis just because I get fed up of “Famous YouTubers” 🙂

  2. oh I hear you, my son is mad about Minecraft too. It’s been quite a challenge to get him to wait until I’m finished work for the day and the PC is available. But it has led him into joining Coding Club at school and it’s clear that he’s learning a lot. He tends to hook up with friends on Skype and they all play together on the same server. No it’s not playing in the great outdoors with some mud and a stick but it’s far more educational than passive TV watching so long may it continue.

  3. Marjorie Watkins avatar
    Marjorie Watkins

    I agree that Minecraft is an excellent game. But there are some children who can take it or leave it and can regulate themselves, but there are others, like my grandson, who became obsessed with it and would throw a wobbly when told to come off it. But, there is an on/off switch on a computer and it should be used. Obsession with computer games can be damaging to a child’s health. They want to play them to the exclusion of everything else, and it becomes a nightmare for both parent/carer and child.

    1. Then maybe one of the things it can be used to teach is how to regulate themselves? Parents/carers always have to be the last line of defence certainly, and have the best interests of the child at heart.

  4. angela lawrence avatar
    angela lawrence

    This game has my son addicted in a horrible way he is 12 years old and my home is being run by his minecraft, if hes not on hes being horrible, if he is on he would not come out of the room for hours on end, he sneaks it on while im a sleep so u move xbox to front room to find him still doin the same thing, his school homework is rushed. I have now banned it from mon-fri his personality had totally changed his in a minecraft trancr and its very upsetting for a parent to watch a 12 year old with an addiction

    1. Anonymous avatar
      Anonymous

      Hi I’m a boy of. 13 years old at 11 years old I was addicted to this game like badly… I started swearing and fought with my parents a lot. They banned it from me at 12 it’s been a year now that I haven’t played that game and I wake up better I don’t swear anymore and I just love everything I do yes I do play a game now and then but to an extent that I say to myself “ok anonymous it’s been an hour go and help mum or go run or read” I am just warning this ban it from him straight away or else he’s gonna fail in school and when I mean ban not just on weekdays but forever!

    2. He’s a gamer live with it. I used to play minecraft non stop it was fun so why not. He will eventually get bored of it like i did and move on. I don’t think banning it is the right idea, he will just play more of it because of the fact he is banned. The best way is to outline the importance of School work and how it can impact your life in the future although i’m sure a 12 year old will think nothing of this. I must have been at least 15 before i took school work seriously and my mom never told me to stop playing on the Xbox unless it was late and a school night.

  5. Wow! Told my son I was looking online for advice on Minecraft addiction, totally not expecting to find one! ????
    Ive taken his phone and laptop, hes having a mini fit in his room, and now taking him fr a walk around a local beauty spot so he can walk it off lol – so far not so good, but its about how if left to feed his first addiction, we are allowing addiction to become acceptable.
    So in nurturing this relatively harmless addiction, we are nonetheless condoning and encouraging addictive personality to develop.
    Like ignoring a nose picker…..nobody wants to date a bogey eater.

    1. Jax Blunt avatar
      Jax Blunt

      I think you may have slightly missed the point of this post Nina, but thank you for taking the time to comment nevertheless.

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