alone in the house

this is a rare event.

So, if you’ve taken ibuprofen, paracetamol, more ibuprofen when the first lot have worn off (time wise that is), you’ve tried a darkened room, a warm bath, sitting out in the garden and lying around in the living room, does a headache that refuses to be banished count as a migraine? I’m assuming not if I can cope with blogging, but I’m running out of things to do to distract myself from the pain. I’m thinking of going back to bed, it’s getting boring being up with the pain, and there’s an outside chance I might fall asleep I suppose.

That’s my day. Tim has taken the kids to the party at Brighouse, as I didn’t think I ought to be driving. I’m sure he’ll love it – an afternoon in a softplay place with 20 or so screaming kids is just his idea of fun 😉

My head still hurts. Maybe it’s the number of things swirling around in it, trying to work out what to tackle next. Little as I like the flylady approach, I think 15 minutes concerted action on the various cluttered parts of my life might be the way forward. There’s the situation with the insurance company I blogged yesterday, and various other bits of financial arrangements that need poking. I’m going to have to free up some time during the week to see banks to talk about mortgages – maybe putting this one onto buy-to-let so that we can speed up the moving process, and finding out what we can afford moving wise. Then there will be the whole rigmarole of moving – I’m sure it can be done quite rapidly really. We may be conscripting for a box packing and rubbish removing party sometime soon 😀

Maybe it’s the childcare juggling that I see in the short term future that is less than amusing. We will be able to slip our work hours around to a large extent, but there’s going to be little overlaps, or childcare gaps, certainly in the first few weeks as we get settled into it all. And that’s going to be while we’re still here, which adds the travelling time to any gaps. Bleargh. I can’t see it coming together yet, though I’m sure it will.

I’m sure physical clutter tires ppl out as well. We’ve got so far with various boxes, but keep seeming to grind to a halt – my tendency to spend weekends exhausted in bed isn’t helping. Still, whinging about it won’t get us anywhere, and isn’t helping my head. I think I’ll crawl off upstairs with a cold drink and try a darkened room for a while.


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8 responses to “alone in the house”

  1. Well physical clutter certainly makes me feel more miserable and cross! Sorry you’ve got so much going on in your head right now – can totally sympathise. Hope your headache improves.
    Cx

  2. yes, cluttered up houses sap your energy, I should know all about taht one….. Sadly I have no suggestions for magic cures for clutter other than to hire a skip and get ruthless (but then I’m offering suggestions I’m too chciken to try myself!)
    Hope a good sleep has done for the headache

  3. hey t-bird, are you going to make your suggestions in person next weekend still? Hope so, as I’m looking forward to it 🙂

  4. Yes, clutter is tiring. I hope you are moving stuff you’ve sorted /packed out into self storage or something – working round boxes of stuff doesn’t help.
    As for moving, getting the removal men to pack up our stuff was a good move – so much less effort than days weeks of on/off packing, and in cost terms it was relatively not much more expensive. We did pack some stuff, exp. the garage/shed and loft where they was lots of crap I knew we didn’t want to take. But other stuff was just sorted out, put back into cupbaords etc.
    They just move it all.

  5. Hire a skip, get de-cluttering by being ruthless – not used/worn in 12 months and it goes. Also agree with getting the removal company to pack for you – we always do this and it never costs that much extra. The only thing I packed was a small bag containg nightwear, clothes for next day, bed linen and 3 boxes with all Charlie’s cuddlies which all went in the car.
    You can even pay them to unpack for you too!

  6. Hope you feel better very soon Jax.

  7. hm, if I chucked out everything not worn for 12 months, I wouldn’t have anything to wear for camp 😉 But I don’t gather much clothing as I go. Definitely need to deal with the rest of the accumulation though. Just not quite sure when…

  8. Have to agree – be ruthless and it gets done much quicker. Though maybe exercise a little more care than I did as I now seem to have no summer clothes! It also appears to be summer very early 🙂
    I’m sure it will all come together for you – you just have to get through the transitional phase.

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