This is my child.

This is my child.

My beautiful boy. Who didn’t speak until he was over three – we signed and he had speech therapy, and it’s just the way he is.

He has always trodden his own path. I’ve just been reading his fifth birthday post, which makes it very clear. (Wish I hadn’t stopped doing those.) We have been very fortunate that when we’ve wanted additional support, we’ve found it – Sarah the speech therapist all those years ago in Derbyshire was a wonderful help. And all the hearing technicians who have tested his (perfectly adequate) hearing over the years, they’ve been great too. There haven’t been that many people who criticised him for speaking with his hands – perhaps they were too busy raising their eyebrows at our extended breastfeeding, or home educating, or Montessori flexi schooling πŸ˜‰

Sadly, it isn’t the same for every child with additional needs. Some families have to fight for the resources they need. Some children have to deal with suspicion and prejudice out and about, and their parents are told that they aren’t capable, that they aren’t doing it right.

This Is My Child is a myth-busting and awareness-raising campaign on Mumsnet, launched in response to requests from members and supported by input from some of the leading charities in the field.
Its aim is to support parents of children with additional needs, inform everyone else, and open up a conversation about how we can all act to make life easier for everyone caring for children with additional needs.

In the past I’ve donated to ICan, the children’s communication charity. (We even won a teddy bear from them once πŸ˜‰ ) In a few weeks time, I’d be holding a Something Special twitter party at home – I think it’s a fabulous program, and when Small was little, it was the only one that dealt with signing – I recommended it all over the place.

Right now I have another little boy who seems to think talking is for other people. I’m ten years further on down the parenting path, and I’m a little more relaxed this time. All the same, I’m watching him carefully, and we sign. (He doesn’t, apart from the milk sign, but we do.) If he doesn’t start with words reasonably soon, I’ll be tracking down our health visitor and seeing if I can get a referral to a speech therapist, and we’ll be doing the merry dance again.

I’m hoping that won’t be necessary. But if it is, he’ll still be my beautiful child.


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  1. What a beautiful post and a wonderful campaign.

  2. Great post. I do like how you have extended breastfeeding in here too lol!!

    Good luck and I hope that all is “ok” with your youngest, but yes I am a lot more relaxed this time. Guess this time I don’t care (well as much) whether they diagnose him or not, I know what his issues are and am trying to help him cope with them.
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  3. lovely post. We get quite a few raised eyebrows at the homeschooling and breastfeeding too πŸ™‚ So glad you had a good speech therapist and got the support you needed. I think my son had that very same top in the photo at the top of the post!

    • I rather loved that top – slightly sad it doesn’t seem to be in the hand me downs that are still cascading around our group.

  4. Gorgeous boys! Love how you seem so chilled about it all – definitely a positive role model πŸ™‚ thanks!

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