Comments on: decluttering is bad for you. http://liveotherwise.co.uk/makingitup/2007/11/26/decluttering-is-bad-for-you/ montessori at school, autonomous at home, all learning together Fri, 21 Nov 2008 04:00:45 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.1 By: Jax http://liveotherwise.co.uk/makingitup/2007/11/26/decluttering-is-bad-for-you/#comment-240328 Jax Tue, 27 Nov 2007 20:17:35 +0000 http://liveotherwise.co.uk/makingitup/2007/11/26/decluttering-is-bad-for-you/#comment-240328 Thanks all. Thanks all.

]]> By: Allie http://liveotherwise.co.uk/makingitup/2007/11/26/decluttering-is-bad-for-you/#comment-240322 Allie Tue, 27 Nov 2007 15:51:15 +0000 http://liveotherwise.co.uk/makingitup/2007/11/26/decluttering-is-bad-for-you/#comment-240322 Sorry to hear you're going through such a tough time. I'd look for a doctor who does believe in counselling, too. Sorry to hear you’re going through such a tough time. I’d look for a doctor who does believe in counselling, too.

]]> By: Merry http://liveotherwise.co.uk/makingitup/2007/11/26/decluttering-is-bad-for-you/#comment-240319 Merry Tue, 27 Nov 2007 13:30:53 +0000 http://liveotherwise.co.uk/makingitup/2007/11/26/decluttering-is-bad-for-you/#comment-240319 Just wanted to send you love and i wish it would stop hurting for you. I'm sorry. Babyache is awful in all sorts of incomprehensible ways. Just wanted to send you love and i wish it would stop hurting for you. I’m sorry. Babyache is awful in all sorts of incomprehensible ways.

]]> By: Deb http://liveotherwise.co.uk/makingitup/2007/11/26/decluttering-is-bad-for-you/#comment-240318 Deb Tue, 27 Nov 2007 10:37:36 +0000 http://liveotherwise.co.uk/makingitup/2007/11/26/decluttering-is-bad-for-you/#comment-240318 ((((hugs)))) ((((hugs))))

]]> By: Joanna http://liveotherwise.co.uk/makingitup/2007/11/26/decluttering-is-bad-for-you/#comment-240313 Joanna Mon, 26 Nov 2007 23:36:34 +0000 http://liveotherwise.co.uk/makingitup/2007/11/26/decluttering-is-bad-for-you/#comment-240313 Thinking of you too. I'm glad you blogged, as long as it feels better for you. Def. get some counselling or proper support from somewhere - give yourself permission to feel as bad as you really do, for a while, because unfortunately there's no running away from grief - if you try and avoid going through it, it just follows you everywhere you go. Lots of hugs. xx Thinking of you too. I’m glad you blogged, as long as it feels better for you. Def. get some counselling or proper support from somewhere - give yourself permission to feel as bad as you really do, for a while, because unfortunately there’s no running away from grief - if you try and avoid going through it, it just follows you everywhere you go. Lots of hugs. xx

]]> By: Kirsty http://liveotherwise.co.uk/makingitup/2007/11/26/decluttering-is-bad-for-you/#comment-240312 Kirsty Mon, 26 Nov 2007 23:12:11 +0000 http://liveotherwise.co.uk/makingitup/2007/11/26/decluttering-is-bad-for-you/#comment-240312 *hugs* thinking of you. *hugs* thinking of you.

]]> By: Nic http://liveotherwise.co.uk/makingitup/2007/11/26/decluttering-is-bad-for-you/#comment-240311 Nic Mon, 26 Nov 2007 22:58:27 +0000 http://liveotherwise.co.uk/makingitup/2007/11/26/decluttering-is-bad-for-you/#comment-240311 Also had been wondering and not at all wishing you hadn't bothered blogging although wishing of course it was for happier reasons. I have no words of wisdom but wanted you to know I am thinking of you. xxx Also had been wondering and not at all wishing you hadn’t bothered blogging although wishing of course it was for happier reasons.
I have no words of wisdom but wanted you to know I am thinking of you. xxx

]]> By: Sarah, Dino and Mimi http://liveotherwise.co.uk/makingitup/2007/11/26/decluttering-is-bad-for-you/#comment-240310 Sarah, Dino and Mimi Mon, 26 Nov 2007 22:54:24 +0000 http://liveotherwise.co.uk/makingitup/2007/11/26/decluttering-is-bad-for-you/#comment-240310 I'd be changing doctors hon. Glad you *bothered* to blog, it's good to scream even if it's only in here. Can't think what else to say but really hoping things start looking up for you soon. Hell, even that sounds trite. Thinking of you anyway. I’d be changing doctors hon.

Glad you *bothered* to blog, it’s good to scream even if it’s only in here.

Can’t think what else to say but really hoping things start looking up for you soon. Hell, even that sounds trite.

Thinking of you anyway.

]]> By: layla http://liveotherwise.co.uk/makingitup/2007/11/26/decluttering-is-bad-for-you/#comment-240309 layla Mon, 26 Nov 2007 22:45:59 +0000 http://liveotherwise.co.uk/makingitup/2007/11/26/decluttering-is-bad-for-you/#comment-240309 I don't wish you hadn't blogged. There's nothing you're *supposed* to do Jax. I've named one, she was blessed & that got me through the first few weeks. I wish there was a magic 3 step plan or something, something that would make it stop hurting, guaranteed. It's fucking shit. I 'fired' my GP practice over their management of the last miscarriage - I'm currently doctor-less but I had to do it, I couldn't even think about seeing them again. I don’t wish you hadn’t blogged.

There’s nothing you’re *supposed* to do Jax. I’ve named one, she was blessed & that got me through the first few weeks. I wish there was a magic 3 step plan or something, something that would make it stop hurting, guaranteed. It’s fucking shit.

I ‘fired’ my GP practice over their management of the last miscarriage - I’m currently doctor-less but I had to do it, I couldn’t even think about seeing them again.

]]> By: Sarah http://liveotherwise.co.uk/makingitup/2007/11/26/decluttering-is-bad-for-you/#comment-240308 Sarah Mon, 26 Nov 2007 22:30:11 +0000 http://liveotherwise.co.uk/makingitup/2007/11/26/decluttering-is-bad-for-you/#comment-240308 definitely don't wish you hadn't bothered. This is reality. Don't really know what to say. Grief hurts and it comes around when you weren't expecting it. Can imagine how hard it was to find that letter. But I will say that we have a memorial service like that here, and despite the fact that I've never named any of my pre-12-wk miscarriages, and I certainly don't do the angel baby thing, the services have been really useful to me personally. It gives you a chance to make space in your life that otherwise just has to go on to remember those losses in (hopefully) a more positive way. Perhaps by the time the date in the Spring comes round you might feel you're up to going, and it might just help a little. Is it stupid to suggest seeing if there is an MA support group/contact anywhere near you? Or a doctor who *does* believe in counselling! Thinking of you, anyway. Hope I haven't said anything to make it worse. xxx. definitely don’t wish you hadn’t bothered. This is reality.

Don’t really know what to say. Grief hurts and it comes around when you weren’t expecting it. Can imagine how hard it was to find that letter.

But I will say that we have a memorial service like that here, and despite the fact that I’ve never named any of my pre-12-wk miscarriages, and I certainly don’t do the angel baby thing, the services have been really useful to me personally. It gives you a chance to make space in your life that otherwise just has to go on to remember those losses in (hopefully) a more positive way. Perhaps by the time the date in the Spring comes round you might feel you’re up to going, and it might just help a little.

Is it stupid to suggest seeing if there is an MA support group/contact anywhere near you? Or a doctor who *does* believe in counselling!

Thinking of you, anyway. Hope I haven’t said anything to make it worse.

xxx.

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