Comments on: I’m going to need a flashier tie. http://liveotherwise.co.uk/makingitup/2007/02/19/im-going-to-need-a-flashier-tie/ montessori at school, autonomous at home, all learning together Mon, 08 Sep 2008 15:04:26 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.1 By: Ackers http://liveotherwise.co.uk/makingitup/2007/02/19/im-going-to-need-a-flashier-tie/#comment-234229 Ackers Tue, 27 Feb 2007 10:05:46 +0000 http://liveotherwise.co.uk/makingitup/2007/02/19/im-going-to-need-a-flashier-tie/#comment-234229 On the day you wrote this post I was saying goodbye to our 3-month old pregnancy. It's a strange old business. Some days you think 'Ah well Mother Nature knows best & far worse things can happen to people' and other days it is like wading through treacle trying to get on with so much sadness. On the day you wrote this post I was saying goodbye to our 3-month old pregnancy. It’s a strange old business. Some days you think ‘Ah well Mother Nature knows best & far worse things can happen to people’ and other days it is like wading through treacle trying to get on with so much sadness.

]]> By: Deb W http://liveotherwise.co.uk/makingitup/2007/02/19/im-going-to-need-a-flashier-tie/#comment-234046 Deb W Thu, 22 Feb 2007 19:21:45 +0000 http://liveotherwise.co.uk/makingitup/2007/02/19/im-going-to-need-a-flashier-tie/#comment-234046 ((((Jax)))) Thinking of you. ((((Jax))))

Thinking of you.

]]> By: Lucy http://liveotherwise.co.uk/makingitup/2007/02/19/im-going-to-need-a-flashier-tie/#comment-233992 Lucy Wed, 21 Feb 2007 15:15:43 +0000 http://liveotherwise.co.uk/makingitup/2007/02/19/im-going-to-need-a-flashier-tie/#comment-233992 So sorry to hear you're sad (and how could you not be). Thinking of you. So sorry to hear you’re sad (and how could you not be). Thinking of you.

]]> By: Claire http://liveotherwise.co.uk/makingitup/2007/02/19/im-going-to-need-a-flashier-tie/#comment-233976 Claire Tue, 20 Feb 2007 22:45:19 +0000 http://liveotherwise.co.uk/makingitup/2007/02/19/im-going-to-need-a-flashier-tie/#comment-233976 ((((Jax)))) Charlie named the baby I lost last year and talks about her a lot and it is hard and it hurts. The only way I can even get through those waves of sadness that creep up on you from nowhere is to just let them happen iykwim? Thinking of you. ((((Jax))))

Charlie named the baby I lost last year and talks about her a lot and it is hard and it hurts. The only way I can even get through those waves of sadness that creep up on you from nowhere is to just let them happen iykwim?

Thinking of you.

]]> By: Allie http://liveotherwise.co.uk/makingitup/2007/02/19/im-going-to-need-a-flashier-tie/#comment-233973 Allie Tue, 20 Feb 2007 19:19:16 +0000 http://liveotherwise.co.uk/makingitup/2007/02/19/im-going-to-need-a-flashier-tie/#comment-233973 Ow. Sorry you're going through a hard time. Ow. Sorry you’re going through a hard time.

]]> By: Layla http://liveotherwise.co.uk/makingitup/2007/02/19/im-going-to-need-a-flashier-tie/#comment-233971 Layla Tue, 20 Feb 2007 18:42:57 +0000 http://liveotherwise.co.uk/makingitup/2007/02/19/im-going-to-need-a-flashier-tie/#comment-233971 The should-have-beens are awful. It's amazing how brave these things can make you but the ever present undercurrent of sadness is so draining. I feel so much for you all. The should-have-beens are awful.

It’s amazing how brave these things can make you but the ever present undercurrent of sadness is so draining.

I feel so much for you all.

]]> By: Nic http://liveotherwise.co.uk/makingitup/2007/02/19/im-going-to-need-a-flashier-tie/#comment-233958 Nic Tue, 20 Feb 2007 09:51:18 +0000 http://liveotherwise.co.uk/makingitup/2007/02/19/im-going-to-need-a-flashier-tie/#comment-233958 Thinking of you xxx Thinking of you xxx

]]> By: Sarah http://liveotherwise.co.uk/makingitup/2007/02/19/im-going-to-need-a-flashier-tie/#comment-233952 Sarah Tue, 20 Feb 2007 06:40:46 +0000 http://liveotherwise.co.uk/makingitup/2007/02/19/im-going-to-need-a-flashier-tie/#comment-233952 (((Jax))) Nothing else to say really is there? It does hurt like crazy and that's all there is to it. (((Jax)))

Nothing else to say really is there? It does hurt like crazy and that’s all there is to it.

]]> By: Merry http://liveotherwise.co.uk/makingitup/2007/02/19/im-going-to-need-a-flashier-tie/#comment-233940 Merry Tue, 20 Feb 2007 00:00:53 +0000 http://liveotherwise.co.uk/makingitup/2007/02/19/im-going-to-need-a-flashier-tie/#comment-233940 Amelie has a dead sister she has created in her head called Evangeline; marvellous :roll: I'm so desperately sorry that you are hurting, i know how much that space hurts me, even without allowing myself the genuine grief you have of having wanted it and planned it and being excited about it. It bloody well does hurt, that space, and i just don't know how you fix it. And if i thought it would help i would say to hold on, because you have the future - and hope - but i know it won't cure the hurt or plaster over the space. And for all i know, that might not be the way life is going. But my personal experience, for what it is or isn't worth, is that people do seem to understand how difficult and painful it is to see life going on around you and will not begrudge you the time you need to be ready to face it. I'm really, really sorry it is hurting you so badly :( i wouldn't wish that pain on anyone :( Amelie has a dead sister she has created in her head called Evangeline; marvellous :roll:

I’m so desperately sorry that you are hurting, i know how much that space hurts me, even without allowing myself the genuine grief you have of having wanted it and planned it and being excited about it.

It bloody well does hurt, that space, and i just don’t know how you fix it. And if i thought it would help i would say to hold on, because you have the future - and hope - but i know it won’t cure the hurt or plaster over the space. And for all i know, that might not be the way life is going. But my personal experience, for what it is or isn’t worth, is that people do seem to understand how difficult and painful it is to see life going on around you and will not begrudge you the time you need to be ready to face it.

I’m really, really sorry it is hurting you so badly :( i wouldn’t wish that pain on anyone :(

]]> By: Andrea http://liveotherwise.co.uk/makingitup/2007/02/19/im-going-to-need-a-flashier-tie/#comment-233938 Andrea Mon, 19 Feb 2007 23:17:26 +0000 http://liveotherwise.co.uk/makingitup/2007/02/19/im-going-to-need-a-flashier-tie/#comment-233938 Well, shoot. :( *hugs* Well, shoot. :(

*hugs*

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